I am at home and secure in myself no matter what I am doing or where I am at. I would like to find a woman that can appreciate that quality and be a part of it for the following simple rea; If you don’t live life to its fullest by sometimes stepping outside your comfort zone and exploring the ever changing world around you, then how can you say that you what you want from life? Because, unless you have seen all life has to offer, you really don't know what you like. What you know is what you’re comfortable with and that is where you drew the line. But hey, if you do this knowingly and you are content with that, wonderful, I however will not be. At age 48 I tell people all the time, if you haven’t learned something today, you didn’t try hard enough. I want to learn something every day, experience life every day, look back and know I have no regrets because I wish I had…..(fill in the blank)….when I had the chance to. I am somewhat quiet, very easy going southern gentleman. Yes, I open doors for strangers, say sir and mam, remove my hat when indoors, all the things expected of a southern gentleman. I do not watch TV. I read and I live, and I do it unscripted. I am very energetic, I don’t care to just sit around and do nothing for very long. WAIT….that doesn’t mean I can’t sit for hours and read. But that is doing something still, exercising the mind. Which is just as important as exercising the physical body. While I admittedly am still turning over the stones on my path of life, I have been through the days of trying to discover who I am what my purpose is. I am now trying to find that special lady to live out the remainder of my life with. Someone that understands the expression “That what lasts long won't come easy and what comes easy won't last long.” When you work at something to achieve it, it means so much more to you then if it were simply handed to you for no rea. This includes relationships. I am very goal oriented, and don't mind working for what I want. One important realization that I have learned in life is 1) Nothing in life is free, and 2) never take for granted what you have because it could be gone tomorrow without warning. I am looking for a lady that enjoys life and can have fun out on the town or relaxing at home. She must also share interest in the same sexual lifestyle. I am a dominant male looking for a submissive female. Physical attraction is important, I am in in shape and have an active lifestyle. I expect the same, please be hwp. I am not rushing into anything right away, let's go meet and see if the chemistry is right. There must be physical attraction so please be in shape. If this is intriguing to you let me know, we may be right for one another. If there is anything you would like to ask, by all means ask. Best of luck to you in your search.

My Ideal Person You must have a sexual desire to push the envelope toward the kinky and taboo side. Lets face it, everyone likes sex, but exciting sex is even better! Open to explore new ways to enjoy sexual pleasures. Such as restraints, role play and submission to name a few. And my profile name should say enough.....for her pleasure first.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Threesomes, even though it's been done

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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